After I uploaded the Sex and Paraplegia video, I had some people message me and say "hey, you never mentioned what turns you on." Other than the typical things that a man would find arousing --breasts, a nice ass, sexy legs, a pretty face, etc-- the thing that I find most attractive in women is a beautiful singing voice.
I realized this after going to several musicals in the past couple of weeks. I am extremely attracted to great female vocalists. So much so, in fact, that I would say it trumps all of the things I mentioned before.
Keep in mind that I'm not talking about qualities that I look for in potential girlfriend/wife. The attributes that I mentioned in the previous paragraph are what I find desirable in a sexual partner.
For a long-term relationship, the things that are most important to me are kindness/compassion, a great sense of humor, sensitivity, and intelligence. Oh and I'm not sure if there is a word for this, but since I want to have kids some day, I'd be looking for a woman that has what it takes to be a good mom, if that makes any sense.
Give me all of those things and then the boobs, legs, and voice aren't really that important after all.
P.S. Cadbury Creme Eggs may be the best thing ever. Not that they turn me on or anything. ...or do they? =X
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